You need to make a major change in your life. Do you make it all at once, cold turkey style, or incrementally?
I am ssslllloow in taking decisions because it might result a major change in my life. (Except one: I said Yes to marriage too soon. Lol.)
People think I am passive in taking decision or solving problems, but I call it as logical and rational thinking. They won’t come to help me clean the mess if I land in soup.
I am not perfect. Half or rather whole life I had taken decisions which helped others rather than self. (Call it pleasing others!) sad annoyed at self
How many times have I said, “I hate my life”? Many times, indeed. Though at the end I always say, “You get to live only once. You are lucky you are alive after near death incident. Quality of life rather than quantity. Even if you die at 50, leave your mark in this world. Life is beautiful.”